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    LGMD type 2b

    I have newly been diagnosed with lgmd I am type 2b. I am struggling to come to terms with my new diagnosis my head is blown. Although I was along side someone when I got my diagnosis but they have a more it’s okay it could we worse sort of positive attitude towards it where I am having the more omg it’s took me ages to get here, giving up a few times to have found out and now I’ve found out the information has gone straight through my head and now I’m struggling kind of attitude.
    How did everyone else come to terms with there conditions?

    sameliz91
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    #202753
    Reply To: LGMD type 2b

    Hello and welcome. You are going through what the majority on here have gone through when we were diagnosed. It is nothing to be ashamed of as clearly it is a huge change in your life, and one over which you have not control to stop it happening. I suppose I should have said that you do have some control over it, especially if you are actively fighting it, physiotherapy and exercises are the first that come to mind, not to mention lots of research into your condition to find out more about it from sensible sources like MDUK.
    But how did we come to terms with it. For myself I had just found out my son was diagnosed with the condition (FHSD) and I was to be a carrier. A few years later I was not longer a carrier but a sufferer. I had done lots of research, and being from and NHS clinical background I was able to find out more about what my son and I had and how it might affect us. So my acceptance did not come quickly, but with lots of time, and acceptance, but a willingness to fight it all the way. Even today some thirty years on I have times when I ask why me, what have I done to deserve it. All the questions I am sure you have asked yourself. Thing is I do not know, it is a combination of genetics, the things that shape who we are. There is much research going on that will help us all in due course, and there are lots of things that can be done to ameliorate your symptoms in between times. Your specialist will be able to tell you more. Others may offer their own thoughts, but I would just say, dont give up. Fight the fight. Remember too that we are always here.

    Mike

    So many love songs, so little love.

    embayweather embayweather
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    #202754
    Reply To: LGMD type 2b

    Hello, like Mike said there’s more research being done and also keep fighting. Yes it is a big shock it’s a bit like going through the grief process but you will get there and take each day as it comes. You can also ask to speak to a genetic councilor. If you have any hobbies it helps you from over think it’s a bit of a distraction and do talk about it to your friends and family about it and we don’t all deal with things the same way. Cc

    Crazy cat
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    #202798
    Reply To: LGMD type 2b

    Firstly I would like to say a massive thank you to you both for responding, sometimes it can be difficult to live with such a condition I literally feel that some days that I’m living in someone else’s body like I am just sitting on the other side of it and seeing this person that isn’t me… its almost like I’m grieving for the person I was and now looking at someone who I ain’t. and its even worse cause I find that there is hardly any support around.

    Though I am due to start a group this month on the 14th but its to do with neurological conditions as a whole so hopefully fingers crossed I get some insight on how they deal with their condition. I am trying everything in my power to try and fight this but sometimes its hard.

    I am still currently in work but I know that I wont be able to continue that sooner or later as its becoming a struggle even now for me. :waving:

    sameliz91
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