Taboo Subject Mental Health with Conditions

Thank you Cat, last major physical and psychological crash where my partner went markedly Went down hill was after Social Services Hate Crime, On her mental health part of her condition, wasn’t acknowledged of believed and attacked her on it, attack was on all members of family, we were not allowed to defend ourselves(even with formal complaints).The social services & Gp’s cut me out of her’s and children’s Medical health and issues Or to be believed. Except The neurologists who seen it before in many later stages of condition! SEND school and disabled children’s Social Services falsified evidence & Statements after we complained that school was not following EHC let alone educating him. About a 1/10 of what they did. Services were trying to go after the kids by damaging them?

My Partner is able to walk 20 m without support but likely to fall, arms breast height for few seconds before fall, unable to comb top of head grip down to only 2 hands holding. Stomach cramps 3-4 days a week! Tiredness most days from wake up, should us ventilator but always has a reason not to.

We Both believe it’s an Imbalance of either brain chemicals or hormones as still able to stay mostly in control when out 1hr or 2hrs with support from carer and can deal with bills once a week but not calls, most days she is unable to cope, With nearly everything else sets off frustration also often spends hours stuck in childhood memories but no signs on standard dementia test (doctors),Was Regularly stuck in a 3 month Repeating cycle now a every few weeks. Mental health put her on combo antidepressants which never worked then gp’s won’t change or alter them even after she asked multiple times, she is unable to stand up for her self and very easily persuaded. when I attend or even a carer friend of ours attends who’s seen most of behaviour patterns we are ignored due to what Social Services Did?!?

Sorry I am a way beyond exhausted carer and being doing it mostly on my own for 9 years now, reduced it lots, tired to keep to basics plus cause and effect.
Also we could never afford to go legal and they knew it.

Thanks again.
Will try panda’s

Thank you for your help found myself watching and autism video regarding ASD/PDA spectrum and the behaviour patterns that go along with it. We are now on the path for a diagnosis of PDA spectrum autism! 2/3 of way, still trying resolve other part her conditions. As neither and/or combined explain all of my partners behaviours and memory issues or repeating same stories repeatedly in a day.

Really thank you for your patience, advice & help. The confusion on faces of DM when we described her Symptoms, should told this long ago! Sorry if I hurt or offended anyone!when you’ve looking for answers for 13 years and doc’s wanting or knowing how to help has a rather Wearing effect on you.